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You may not have an attorney by your side, but I’m here to help you represent yourself to the best of your ability.

You CAN learn to present your case in a persuasive, coherent and intelligent manner.

Some attorneys can’t even do that!

Although I can’t give you specific legal advice for your case, I will educate you on the law and procedure that you need to know.

On top of that, I will teach you how to use that information to present your case in an effective manner, which will put you in the best position to get the results you seek.



Thinking About Divorce? Getting Divorced? Already Divorced?

Planning for Divorce

Planning Stages

If you have not started the process yet, meaning you have not filed a Complaint for Divorce, or begun an alternate dispute method, such as mediation or collaborative divorce, you should begin here and begin planning before you take action. Planning first will make your life much easier after the process begins.

Litigation, Divorce

You're In the Thick Of It

If you’re in the middle of your divorce, then things are happening and you need to be on top of things.  Depending on how your case is progressing, maybe you need more time, maybe you feel overwhelmed, or maybe you feel like you are being pushed around.  Find out how to regain control and present your case in a way to get results.

Post Judgment

Post Divorce Issues

Are you divorced?  Unfortunately, sometimes the real problems begin after the judgment of divorce and now you find yourself continuing to fight over money, custody, or even still the marital assets.  Maybe you need to go back to court to get some relief.  I will tell you what you need to prove and how to prove it so the court listens to you and understands the issues.



Do you have a choice?

Of course you would like to have a good attorney.  I would like to give my daughter a pony.  Some things just aren’t happening, but you can’t bury your head in the sand and mope around.  You have to deal with the cards you have been dealt.  I’m here to help you do that.

If you can read, talk in public and look presentable in a courtroom, you can represent yourself and get positive results.  There is no forecasting what a Judge will do (no matter what an attorney might say) but you can put yourself in the best position to present your case in the best manner.

You need to have the confidence and willingness to learn the information you need for your case and be able to articulate your argument when necessary.  And, you can.



I can’t tell you what to do, but like most things in life, you get what you pay for.  That’s not to say there are not very good young attorneys out there who are reasonably priced who would take your case.  If you can find one, great!  But, unless your case is resolved quickly, even “cheap” attorneys’ bills become not so cheap.

Hiring the wrong attorney can do more damage than not having one at all. Unless you do your homework on any attorney you consider to represent you, you might be better off going it alone.  While self represented litigants are not supposed to get favorable treatment by the court, I have seen it happen many times.  If you are prepared and know what to say to a Judge, it’s likely you will get the same result as if you had an attorney by your side.

Spend some time on my web site and see if you can learn anything from all the content I provide for you.  If you don’t see anything addressing your particular situation, contact me and I’ll do my best to help you…or at the very least point you in the right direction.  I can only give you general, broad information on your issue because I don’t have all the facts necessary to adequately advise you pertaining to your specific situation. I am trying to help many people at one time and therefore I tend to cover broad common issues that come up in almost every case. My goal is not to get you to hire me as your personal attorney, but rather empower you to represent yourself if you can’t afford to retain an attorney.

Resources for NJ Litigants

Since I practice in New Jersey, I have an intimate knowledge of its law and procedure.  If your case is in New Jersey, here are some resources to help you.  Although these are specific for New Jersey, your state probably has something similar that would come up in an internet search.

New Jersey Court Information This is the main court web site.  It has many forms and packets designed to help people without attorneys. This is web site to help you find attorneys, but it allows you to post questions and get at least some information that you might otherwise have trouble finding.  It’s not going to be substitute for doing your homework and learning the law as many attorneys who do respond to you will tell you to schedule a paid consultation with them to discuss your specific case.  This is because the ethics rules are strict on giving legal advice to random people online.

New Jersey Child Support This is a great web site to learn about child support.  If you are already paying or receiving child support, you can look up your account and get payment history and arrears information.  You can even use the child support calculator to figure out how much your payment will be.

New Jersey Wage and Occupation Information If financial support is going to be an issue, you need to do your research and find out the average salaries for the jobs you and your spouse have.  The court will use this data when it determines how much income to impute for any type of job, whether that is the income you claim you make.

Divorce Plan
Divorce has many components, one of which is the financial side. When financial issues are combined with emotions, the results can be devastating. Asset and debt distribution affects every aspect of your life. Plan for your divorce the way you planned for your wedding. John Cito,CDFA, focuses on the components of pre- and post-divorce financial planning. Divorce Planning is a specialized form of financial planning that can help you achieve a financially fair divorce settlement by analyzing the proposals of you and your spouse. I do not give legal advice. Using mathematics and certain assumptions, your assets that are to be divided as well as your lifestyle will be analyzed and evaluated.

Other Resources

Disclosure:  Please note that some of the links below are affiliate links, and at no additional cost to you, I will earn a small commission if you decide to make a purchase.

Fresh Start After Divorce.
Joanie Winberg is the CEO of the National Association of Divorce for Women and Children, a Divorce Mentor and the producer/co-host of The Divorce View Talk Show. Struggling with her own divorce and seeing the lack of step-by-step educational programs to move your life forward after divorce.

Be sure to check out my Podcast episode with Joanie where I give 5 tips on how to prepare for divorce.

Dear Divorce Coach
Cherie Morris and Vicki Vollweiler, both Certified Divorce Coaches, help those facing divorce succeed on financial, emotional and parenting terms that work for the client’s own individual needs. They will coach you and give you the practical and emotional support that is needed during both separation and divorce. The strategies, techniques, and exercises you will learn will help you move forward with a positive attitude and renewed confidence!

Kids First Parents Second
Check out this Divorce magazine, which a feature article by me about why you need a divorce coach.

If you are looking for legal documents for your divorce, Legal Zoom has forms that you can tailor to meet your needs. Click below to get all the divorce documents you need to finalize your divorce.

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Watch the video below to learn how DivorceU can be the divorce resource you have been looking for!


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Be strong, act confident and stay positive!




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